NoFap

‘SAWAL SHANIVAR’

 

Hello everyone ! We have always been wanting to ask many questions about US, about OUR OWN SELF . But we never really do so Maybe because we feel shy or are not really comfortable asking it. So here are the answers of certain questions you asked me on my Instagram profile (sexandgk) . Read it till the end to know something really shocking including NoFap.

LETS BEGIN !

 

1.WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST ?

Love Vs Lust
ED Times
  • DO YOU KEEP CHECKING YOUR PHONE TO SEE IF THEY TEXTED  ?

  • DO YOU CRAVE FOR SOMEONE EVERYTIME ?

  • IF YES THEN WHAT ACCORDING TO YOU IS THIS ? LOVE OR LUST ?

  • LOVE is actually caring about a person whereas LUST is just about a physical or sexual attraction towards them.

  • Where love is more about the emotional factor lust is all about the sexual aspect.

  • ACCORDING TO VOELLER, “You know when you’re sitting next to someone at the movie theater and you’re super aware of their body?

  • You know exactly where their hand is without even looking.

  • And maybe your shoulders touch each other and you feel an electric current run through your body? That’s lust.”

Love
Times Of India
  • Love, Voeller explains, is deeper.

  • “You’re emotionally attached to their wellbeing and outcome,” she says.

Love
Medium
  • Experts say that lust typically comes more readily than love, because it takes a while to connect with someone on a deeper, emotional connection level.

  • It’s a common belief that lust always fades over time.

  • However, “Lust and love can both fade over time if they aren’t nurtured,” Dr. Henry says.

  • “Lust can transform into love, but it doesn’t always,” Voeller says.

  • It’s possible, to have a strong physical connection with someone but not really care about their emotional wellbeing.

  • “On the other hand, some people feel a deeper sense of lust when they’re in love,” she says.

  • “For some people, feeling totally secure and emotionally connected to someone makes the sex more satisfying.”

Lust
Times Of India

—SIGNS TO KNOW IF ITS LOVE OR LUST :-

 

  • –If you crave for the other person physically then it’s lust.

  • All  you can think of is them being close to you physically, that’s lust.

  • If you have a sexual craving for them then it’s lust.

  • On the other hand if you think of their wellbeing and their happiness then it’s love.

  • When you crave for their emotional presence then it’s love .

  • Love Vs Lust
    Huff Post
  • –When you are least interested to understand what the person is trying to say.

  • You do not ask them questions such as WHAT ?, WHEN ? AND HOW ?

  • If you do not bother about how their day was or to know what happened in their day then it’s LUST.

  • On the other hand if you are curious to know what happened in their day, what did they do and care for them GENUINELY and listen to them then it’s LOVE.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST
Elite Readers
  • –When you want to partially be in their company and do not see your future together then it’s LUST.

  • If you enjoy their presence but don’t want to introduce them to your friends , family etc then it’s LUST.

  • ON the other hand if you dream about them and your future together all time then it’s love.

  • If you include them in your improtant events then it’s LOVE.

2. WHAT IS NoFap ?

NoFap
Nelson quest.com
  • In which group do you belong to? The ones which love to masturbate or the ones who wish to give up on it ?

  • Read the next lines really carefully if you want to give up on it.

  • According to Wikipedia, NoFap is a website and community forum that serves as a support group for those who WISH TO give up pornography and masturbation.

  • It was launched on 20June in 2011.

  • Its name comes from the slang term fap, referring to male masturbation.

  • A 2014 internet survey found that 99% of NoFap followers are male. Though females too are a part of this movement.

  • Reasons to join this differs from person to person. The main motivation is to overcome the addiction of pornography , I repeat ADDICTION.

NoFap
Modern Intimacy
  • So this is for people who are addicted to it and not for the ones who enjoy doing it without disturbing their lives .

  • Other reasons to join this include religious and moral beliefs that exist in our society regarding Masturbation and porn.

  • The group’s views and efforts to combat pornography addiction have been criticized as simplistic, outdated, and incorrect by neuroscientists, psychologists, and other medical professionals.

NoFap
BlockerX
  • The users and followers of this movement call themselves “Fapstronauts.

  • Some correspondents have nicknamed NoFap’s community members as NoFappers.

  • People who join this are self-described porn addicts seeking out for help , while others join it for the challenge or to improve their lives and interpersonal relationships.

  • The goal of the members of the NoFap forums is to stop masturbation entirely, and this goal is due to their “perception of masturbation as unhealthy”.

MASTURBATION
Elite Daily
  • After restricting themselves from porn and masturbation for a period of time, some of NoFap’s users claim to experience various improvements in physical and mental health.

  • Some NoFap users say their brains were warped by porn, at the expense of real relationships.

  • Now all this dosen’t mean that MASTURBATION isn’t good for health. This movement is just for people addicted to it which in turn tries to destroy and disturb their life.

  • So this is not to be taken as a universal movement but is a personal decision.

Also checkout THE BENEFITS OF MASTURBATION.

 

3. WHICH LUBES CAN YOU USE FOR MASTURBATION ?

MASTURBATION
Glamour UK
  • To answer first let me tell you what is a lube .

  • A lubricant is a liquid or gel that women and can apply during sex to make the vulva, vagina, or anal area wetter.

  • Lubricant can also be applied to a man’s penis or a sex toy to make them more slippery.

  • There are many types of lubricants, each with advantages and disadvantages.

  • If you’re planning to masturbate better, then using a lube is what can be recommended.

  • For people with a penis, the friction of your hand directly on your penis for a prolonged period of time is termed to be not a so good feeling.

Lube
Elle
  • The right lube is important for all sex acts, right from masturbation to intercourse.

  • When it comes to using a lubrication while masturbating, there’s a myth that lotion is a popular option but LOTION IS NOT A LUBE.

  • No doubt it’s easily available in the house but it isn’t an ideal way of Masturbation.

  • I have said this in my previous blogs too that your penis is a sensitive area and hence you need to keep scented lotions away from it. If you don’t do so it may lead to irritation.

Also read TIPS FOR A HEALTHY VAGINA.

 

  • ALWAYS GO FOR A LUBE SPECIALLY THE WATER BASED UNSCENTED ONE FOR MASTURBATION.

  • Lube with flavours can also prove irritative.

  • Just make sure whatever you use is 100% PURE.

So I hope you now have a clear perspective about things and your questions have been answered.

Looking forward to have an amazing bond with you all and creating a society which is positive about talking sex .

So do follow my Instagram page (sexandgk)
where I will keep interacting with you all.

 

Also read HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM SEXUAL ASSAULT.

 

Thank you and have a great day !

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