5 THINGS TO REMEMBER BEFORE HAVING SEX

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By now, you all know the advantages of having sex but did you know what is to be done before having sex? In today’s blog you shall know about 5 THINGS TO REMEMBER BEFORE HAVING SEX.

Sex could be akward or confusing for you especially when you are doing it for the first time. This is because we have never been taught about it.Our society feels it’s shameful to talk about it though majority of them do it.So here are 5 things you should remember before having sex which may help you in enhancing you sexual experiences.

So let’s go,

5 Things to remember before having sex.

1.CONSENT

Very important thing to remember before having sex - CONSENT
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  • CONSENT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING BEFORE HAVING SEX.
  • Consent means approval.Sexual consent is consent to engage in sexual activity.
  • I SAID THIS BEFORE AND I’LL SAY IT ALWAYS.’SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITHOUT CONSENT IS CONSIDERED AS RAPE OR SEXUAL ASSAULT.’
  • It can be difficult to know if the person you’re with wants to be intimate with you or not.
  • Sometimes it’s hard to ask or find out how the other person feels about you.
  • It’s important that the person you’re with gives their consent to the level you wish to go.
  • Everytime before having Sex ask yourself,”AM I REALLY READY FOR IT ?”
  • Your consent as well as your partnern’s consent is the most important thing before having sex.
  • Neither you nor your partner should force each other for sex.Also doing it under someone’s pressure is not correct.
  • Always practice sex only when both of you are willing and ready for it. CONSENT SHOULD ALWAYS BE MUTUAL AND ENTHUSIASTIC.
  • This thing before having Sex is really important because without it neither the process will be comfortable nor Pleasureable.

2. USE PROTECTION

Very important thing to remember before having sex - Protection
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  • Let how much ever the process of Sex be enthusiastic or romantic,nobody desires for STIs or unwanted PREGNANCY.
  • Hence,using protection is always PREFERABLE AND SAFE.
  • Men shouldn’t feel that they are doing a favor on their girl by wearing a condom.
  • Just as the amount of FEMALES are prone to STIs through sex so are Men.
  • This thing to remember before sex is really important as Perosnal health is something which we all really need to understand and look upon.
  • Condoms let you focus on Sex leaving behind the worry of STIs and PREGNANCY.
  • You should always confirm the expiry date of the condom before buying it.
  • Also using a new condom every time you have Sex is very essential.
  • This thing is important to remember before having sex because, “SAFER SEX IS BETTER SEX BECAUSE IT RESTRAINS FROM SPOILING THE MOOD.”

3. STIMULATE YOUR BRAIN

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  • Stimulating your brains actually means to arouse it with thoughts .
  • Preparing your brain for what will happen next is essential for pleasure as well as arousal.
  • Thoughts of how you wish the SEXUAL PROCESS to proceed is what is meant by stimulating the brain.
  • This thing to remember before having sex is essential especially for women because sex begins in the mind.
  • Rodgers says that, “The brain is a more powerful sexual organ than genitalia, because it’s where sex drive roots from.”
  • Hence visually imagining sex play will do wonders in preparation for sex.
  • You can imagine sessions throughout the hours of the day leading to sex .
  • Also, ofcourse don’t forget foreplay once you’re finally together in the process.
  • This thing to remember before having sex is important because,”ONLY IF YOU CAN AROUSE AND PREPARE YOUR MIND THEN WILL YOUR BODY BE ABLE TO DO SO.”

4. MAKE A TO-DO LIST AND THEN PUT IT AWAY

Make a to-do list and throw it away
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  • Sex does helps in reducing stress but if you practice sex in a lot of stress then it may not lead to anything good.
  • Before having Sex  calm down yourself to an extent to be happily and excitingly doing it.
  • You’re going to enjoy sex a whole lot less if you’re thinking about everything you need to get done.
  • If your mind is constantly wandering towards thoughts like, “I NEED TO DO THIS ” and “I NEED TO DO THAT “then you will not be able to enjoy the moment.
  • Those everyday things can get in the way of being able to focus on enjoying sex.
  • So if you feel things getting piled up in front of you, make a to-do list and then put that list off .
  • MURRAY SAYS, “Before shifting from your busy life to a sexual environment, take a moment to inhale and exhale a few deep breaths.
  • This will help you relax and get in a more comfortable and Pleasureable zone.”

5. Start off slow.

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  • The sayings,’HASTE IS WASTE’ and ‘SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE,’ perfectly implies for SEX.
  • One major thing to keep in mind is that most women bodies need about 20 minutes to fully prepare for penetrative sex.
  • RODGERS said, “This means that taking time to enjoy some foreplay can go a long way in providing both partners with an incredibly enjoyable sex experience”.
  • “Undressing each other piece by piece — giving each other’s body kisses along the way — is a great way to set a sensual tone.”
  • Don’t rush in the heat of the moment rather slow the way down.
  • You’ll rather be more ready and exciting for the main event.
  • Sex in itself is a process starting from arousal to undressing to the actual process.
  • Hence it is really important to go SLOW and STEP BY STEP for a satisfactory process.

These were certain things you should remember before having sex.

Well there is nothing to worry about or thoroughly remember in this.Sex is a process which gradually gets better and better.All you need to take care of is how you wish to go ahead with it.

 

So CHILL AND GREAT SEX TO YOU ALL.

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